week 7

 This week in class we talked about something that is kind of awkward to talk about, I only talked about it with a few people but defiantly not random people on the internet. This week in class we talked about sexual relations between you and your spouse, what goes on, and why. When a man and a woman who love each other have sex they should have an idea of why things happen and to know that it is totally normal. We started off by talk about when a man and a woman come to a “climax” during sex it is different for the man and the woman. A man can climax a lot quicker than the woman, they tend to have pleasure early and fast when having sex then slowly get less and less “hot”. For a woman it talks longer to climax, when they climax, they can have multiple when having sex and it take them longer to get less and less “hot”. Knowing this is important for both men and woman. In order to get to this, point a woman needs to feel safe, close, and warm in order to be comfortable with having sex with someone, for a man they normally will have sex with someone then they start to feel safe, close, and warm with that person.  

When two people get married sex is a way for them to get closer and show how much they truly love each other, that’s one of the reasons it's called “making love”. There are a few things that can make having sex scary and bad in a relationship. A few things that run through most people's heads before they have sex, the challenges that you might go through are judgment that people have expectations for you of how things will be or what people will think of you for having sex. Anxiety can also play a big role in having sex. I think in today society sex it looked at so differently, they are different way to have sex and there are expectations that come with it, also having sex for the first time you could have very high anxiety, you’ve never done anything like this with anyone before.  

These are things that people getting married should talk about before they start having sex, knowing each other's boundaries and having clear communication when having sex. This act can be very scary for both people, so it is very important how they go about it, make sure you both feel safe, close, and warm with each other. Not having good communicate can realty in bad sex and relationship problems down the road. I also think that both people need to understand that neither of you have had sex before and you are both probably feeling the same way about things, made sure you both feel comfortable as you can before engaging in sex, don’t be ageist it just be prepared. 

I feel like God wants us to wait to have sex until we are married because of what an amazing experience it Is and how it really brings to people close together and will make them more united with one another, its truly a special thing that could not be taken lightly. Satin has abused the idea of sex and changed what it should be. When you are ready to share something so amazing with someone, seek guidance from the lord and keep him involved in your relationship, this way your relationship will be very successful and happy. I hope that when you guys read this your able to understand the importance of sex and it should not be taken lightly. Thank you for reading.